The Place To Begin Witnessing

by / Sunday, 04 May 2014 / Published in Eternal Life

Friend, look how happy this family is because they are reading the Bible together. God bless them and all their loved ones.

Sara Lee

“That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; that our daughters may be as corner stones, polished after the similitude of a palace.”  Psalms 114:12

Our work for Christ is to begin with the family in the home.  There is no missionary field more important than this.

Happy are the parents whose lives are a true reflection of the divine, so that the promises and commands of God awaken in the child gratitude and reverence; the parents whose tenderness and justice and long-suffering interpret to the child the love and justice and long-suffering of God; and who, by teaching the child to love and trust and obey them, are teaching him to love and trust and obey his Father in heaven.  Parents who impart to a child such a gift have endowed him with a treasure more precious than the wealth of all the ages—a treasure as enduring as eternity.

God wants every child of tender age to be His child, to be adopted into His family.  Young though they may be, the youth may be members of the household of faith and have a most precious experience.  They may have hearts that are tender and ready to receive impressions that will be lasting.  They may have their hearts drawn out in confidence and love for Jesus, and live for the Saviour.  Christ will make them little missionaries.  The whole current of their thought may be changed, so that sin will not appear a thing to be enjoyed, but to be shunned and hated.

By precept and example parents are to teach their children to labor for the unconverted.  The children should be so educated that they will sympathize with the aged and afflicted and will seek to alleviate the sufferings of the poor and distressed.  …From their earliest years self-denial and sacrifice for the good of others and the advancement of Christ’s cause should be inculcated, that they may be laborers together with God…

God designs that the families of earth shall be a symbol of the family in heaven.  Christian homes, established and conducted in accordance with God’s plan, are among His most effective agencies for the formation of Christian character and for the advancement of His work.

E. G. White, Maranatha (The Lord Is Coming), p. 102

“For I have known him, in order that he may command his children and his household after him, that they keep the way of the Lord, to do righteousness and justice.”  Genesis 18:19

In the family there should be a fixed time for morning and evening worship.  How appropriate it is for parents to gather their children about them before the fast is broken, to thank the heavenly Father for His protection during the night, and to ask Him for His help and guidance and watch care during the day!  How fitting, also, when evening comes, for parents and children to gather once more before Him and thank Him for the blessings of the day that is past!

Family worship should not be governed by circumstances.  You are not to pray occasionally and, when you have a large day’s work to do, neglect it. In thus doing you lead your children to look upon prayer as of no special consequence.  Prayer means very much to the children of God, and thank offerings should come up before God morning and evening.  Says the psalmist, “O come, let us sing unto the Lord: let us make a joyful noise to the rock of our salvation.  Let us come before his presence with thanksgiving, and make a joyful noice unto him with psalms.”  Psalm 95:1, 2

Fathers and mothers, however pressing your business, do not fail to gather your family around God’s alter.  Ask for the guardianship of holy angels in your home.  Remember that your dear ones are exposed to temptations.

In our efforts for the comfort and happiness of guests, let us not overlook our obligations to God. The hour of prayer should not be neglected for any consideration.  Do not talk and amuse yourselves till all are too weary to enjoy the season of devotion.  To do this is to present to God a lame offering.  At an early hour of the evening, when we can pray unhurriedly and understandingly, we should present our supplications and raise our voices in happy grateful praise.

Let all who visit Christians see that the hour of prayer is the most precious, the most secred, and the happiest hour of the day.  These seasons of devotion exert a refining, elevating influence upon all who participate in them.  They bring a peace and rest grateful to the spirit.

E. G. White, Child Guidance, pp. 520, 521

Parents should in a special sense regard themselves as agents of God to instruct their children, as did Abraham, to keep the way of the Lord.  They need to search the Scriptures diligently, to know what is the way of the Lord, that they may teach it to their household.  Micah says, “What doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?” Micah 6:8  In order to be teachers, parents must be learners, gathering light constantly from the oracles of God and by precept and example bringing this precious light into the education of their children.

E. G. White, The Adventist Home, p. 184

Parents, remember that your home is a training school, in which your children are to be prepared for the home above. Deny them anything rather than the education that they should receive in their earliest years.  Allow no word of pettishness. Teach your children to be kind and patient. Teach them to be thoughtful of others.  Thus you are preparing them for higher ministry in religious things.

The home should be a preparatory school, where children and youth may be fitted to do service for the Master, preparatory to joining the higher school in the kingdom of God.

E. G. White, Child Guidance, pp. 17, 18


Blessing the Children

Jesus was ever a lover of children.  He accepted their childish sympathy and their open, unaffected love. The grateful praise from their pure lips was music in His ears, and refreshed His spirit when oppressed by contact with crafty and hypocritical men.  Wherever the Saviour went, the benignity of  His countenance, and His gentle, kindly manner won the love and confidence of children.

Among the Jews it was customary for children to be brought to some rabbi, that he might lay his hands upon them in blessing; but the Saviour’s disciples thought His work too important to be interrupted in this way.  When the mothers came to Him with their little ones, the disciples looked on them with disfavor.  They thought these children too young to be benefited by a visit to Jesus, and concluded that He would be displeased at their presence.  But it was the disciples with whom He was displeased.  The Saviour understood the care and burden of the mothers who were seeking to train their children according to the word of God. He had heard their prayers.  He Himself had drawn them into His presence.

One mother with her child had left her home to find Jesus.  On the way she told a neighbor her errand, and the neighbor wanted to have Jesus bless her children.  Thus several mothers came together, with their little ones.  Some of the children had passed beyond the years of infancy to childhood and youth.  When the mothers made known their desire, Jesus heard with Sympathy the timid, tearful request.  But He waited to see how the disciples would treat them.  When He saw them send the mothers away, thinking to do Him a favor, He showed them their error, saying, “Suffer the little children to come unto Me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God.”  He took the children in His arms, He laid His hands upon them, and gave them the blessing for which they came.

The mothers were comforted.  They returned to their homes strengthened and blessed by the words of Christ.  They were encouraged to take up their burden with new cheerfulness, and to work hopefully for their children.  The mothers of today are to receive His words with the same faith.  Christ is as verily a personal Saviour today as when He lived a man among men.  He is as verily the helper of mothers today as when He gathered the little ones to His arms in Judea. The children of our hearths are as much the purchase of His blood as were the children of long ago.

Jesus knows the burden of every mother’s heart.  He who had a mother that struggled with poverty and privation sympathizes with every mother in her labors.  He who made a long journey in order to relieve the anxious heart of a Canaanite woman will do as much for the mothers of today.  He who gave back to the widow of Nain her only son, and who in His agony upon the cross remembered His own mother, is touched today by the mother’s sorrow.  In every grief and every need He will give comfort and help.

Let mothers come to Jesus with their perplexities.  They will find grace sufficient to aid them in the management of their children.  The gates are open for every mother who would lay her burdens at the Saviour’s feet. He who said, “Suffer the little children to come unto Me, and forbid them not,” still invites the mothers to lead up their little ones to be blessed by Him.  Even the babe in its mother’s arms may dwell as under the shadow of the Almighty through the faith of the praying mother. John the Baptist was filled with the Holy Spirit from his birth.  If we will live in communion with God, we too may expect the divine Spirit to mold our little ones, even from their earliest moments.

In the children who were brought in contact with Him, Jesus saw the men and women who should be heirs of His grace and subjects of His kingdom, and some of whom would become martyrs for His sake. He knew that these children would listen to Him and accept Him as their Redeemer far more readily than would grown-up people, many of whom were the worldly-wise and hardhearted. In His teaching He came down to their level.  He, the Majesty of heaven, did not disdain to answer their questions and simplify His important lessons to meet their childish understanding.  He planted in their minds the seeds of truth, which in after years would spring up, and bear fruit unto eternal life.

It is still true that children are the most susceptible to the teachings of the gospel; their hearts are open to divine influences, and strong to retain the lessons received.  The little children may be Christians, having an experience in accordance with their years.  They need to be educated in spiritual things, and parents should give them every advantage, that they may form characters after the similitude of the character of Christ.

Fathers and mothers should look upon their children as younger members of the Lord’s family, committed to them to educate for heaven. The lessons that we ourselves learn from Christ we should give to our children, as the young minds can receive them, little by little opening to them the beauty of the principles of heaven.  Thus the Christian home becomes a school, where the parents serve as underteachers, while Christ Himself is the chief instructor.

In working for the conversion of our children, we should not look for violent emotion as the essential evidence of conviction of sin.  Nor is it necessary to know the exact time when they are converted.  We should teach them to bring their sins to Jesus, asking His forgiveness, and believing that He pardons and receives them as He received the children when He was personally on earth.


As the mother teaches her children to obey her because they love her, she is teaching them the first lessons in the Christian life.  The mother’s love represents to the child the love of Christ, and the little ones who trust and obey their mother are learning to trust and obey the Saviour.

Jesus was the pattern for children, and He was also the father’s example. He spoke as one having authority, and His word was with power; yet in all His intercourse with rude and violent men He did not use one unkind or discourteous expression.  The grace of Christ in the heart will impart a heaven-born dignity and sense of propriety.  It will soften whatever is harsh, and subdue all that is coarse and unkind.  It will lead fathers and mothers to treat their children as intelligent beings, as they themselves would like to be treated.

Parents, in the training of your children, study the lessons that God has given in nature.  If you would train a pink, or rose, or lily, how would you do it?  Ask the gardener by what process he makes every branch and leaf to flourish so beautifully, and to develop in symmetry and loveliness. He will tell you that it was by no rude touch, no violent effort; for this would only break the delicate stems.  It was by little attentions, often repeated. He moistened the soil, and protected the growing plants from the fierce blasts and from the scorching sun, and God caused them to flourish and to blossom into loveliness.  In dealing with your children, follow the method of the gardener.  By gentle touches, by loving ministrations, seek to fashion their characters after the pattern of the character of Christ.

Encourage the expression of love toward God and toward one another. The reason why there are so many hardhearted men and women in the world is that true affection has  been regarded as weakness, and has been discouraged and repressed.  The better nature of these persons was stifled in childhood; and unless the light of divine love shall melt away their cold selfishness, their happiness will be forever ruined.  If we wish our children to possess the tender spirit of Jesus, and the sympathy that angels manifest to us, we must encourage the generous, loving impulses of childhood.

Teach the children to see Christ in nature.  Take them out into the open air, under the noble trees, into the garden; and in all the wonderful works of creation teach them to see an expression of His love.  Teach them that He made the laws which govern all living things, that He has made laws for us, and that these laws are for our happiness and joy. Do not weary them with long prayers and tedious exhortations, but through nature’s object lessons teach them obedience to the law of God.

As you win their confidence in you as followers of Christ, it will be easy to teach them of the great love wherewith He has loved us.  As you try to make plain the truths of salvation, and point the children to Christ as a personal Saviour, angels will be by your side.  The Lord will give to fathers and mothers grace to interest their little ones in the precious story of the Babe of Bethlehem, who is indeed the hope of the world.

When Jesus told the disciples not to forbid the children to come to Him, He was speaking to His followers in all ages–to officers of the church, to ministers, helpers, and all Christians.  Jesus is drawing the children, and He bids us, Suffer them to come; as if He would say, They will come if you do not hinder them.

Let not your un-Christlike character misrepresent Jesus.  Do not keep the little ones away from Him by your coldness and harshness.  Never give them cause to feel that heaven will not be a pleasant place to them if you are there.  Do not speak of religion as something that children cannot understand, or act as if they were not expected to accept Christ in their childhood.  Do not give them the false impression that the religion of Christ is a religion of gloom, and that in coming to the Saviour they must give up all that makes life joyful.

As the Holy Spirit moves upon the hearts of the children, co-operate with His work.  Teach them that the Saviour is calling them, that nothing can give Him greater joy than for them to give themselves to Him in the bloom and freshness of their years.

The Saviour regards with infinite tenderness the souls whom He has purchased with His own blood.  They are the claim of His love.  He looks upon them with unutterable longing.  His heart is drawn out, not only to the best-behaved children, but to those who have by inheritance objectionable traits of character.  Many parents do not understand how much they are responsible for these traits in their children.  They have not the tenderness and wisdom to deal with the erring ones whom they have made what they are.  But Jesus looks upon these children with pity. He traces from cause to effect.

The Christian worker may be Christ’s agent in drawing these children to the Saviour.  By wisdom and tact he may bind them to his heart, he may give them courage and hope, and through the grace of Christ may see them transformed in character, so that of them it may be said, “Of such is the kingdom of God.”

E. G. White, The Desire Of Ages, pp. 460-465


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